Eid without loved ones’ embrace
Eid-ul-Fitr is a celebration of joy, togetherness, and family. Homes are filled with laughter, and loved ones gather to share meals and special moments. But for the elderly living in nursing homes, the day often carries a different tone -- one of quiet reflection, memories, and waiting.
On Eid morning, during a visit to Probin Nibash in Dhaka’s Agargaon, this correspondent saw senior citizens wearing new clothes and preparing for prayers. Some joined small jamaats within the facility, while others walked to nearby mosques. After the Eid prayers, they exchanged greetings and embraced each other, yet the absence of close family members was clearly visible in their expressions.
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In one of the rooms, 73-year-old Abdul Wakil Hakkani was listening to old songs on his phone. Initially reluctant to be photographed, he later agreed to speak to this correspondent. He said that none of his children had called him on Eid, and he was not expecting any calls.
“I have learned to control my emotions. I no longer think about these things. Everyone is busy in their own lives. I do not depend on anyone,” he said.
Another resident, who requested anonymity, reflected on how Eid used to be. “There was a time when Eid meant a house full of people, children’s laughter. Now I am here with others, but my own children are not with me,” he said.
The same sense of longing was echoed among the female residents. One elderly woman shared that her daughter lives abroad and video calls her on Eid day. “We do talk, but without being physically present, the joy is not the same,” she said.
According to the old home authorities, special arrangements have been made for the occasion. Festive meals, including shemai, polao, and meat dishes, are served. Volunteers from various organisations visit throughout the day, bringing gifts, spending time with the residents, and organising small cultural programmes. For a few hours, the otherwise quiet environment becomes lively.
However, as the day progresses, the festivities gradually fade. By afternoon, many residents return to their rooms. Some watch Eid programmes on television, while others sit quietly, immersed in memories of Eids past.
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