Ramadan is the perfect time to say ‘I’m sorry’

Ramadan often arrives when most of our hearts are worn out by the constant struggle to cling and climb to the ladder of survival and success.

In this rush, we drift away from some people who always made us feel at home. Unanswered calls and messages, misunderstandings left unsorted due to stubbornness, end up fading dearly prized bonds and ties.

Ramdan not only reminds us to fast, and pray, but also to let go of our long-held resentments, pride, and ego. It reminds us how short our life is to carry around a hardened and spiteful heart and how sinful, meek, and fragile we all are in front of our Lord.

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Reach out to that friend you often went to Masjid with or that friend who'd always shop for Eid clothing with you for hours. Make plans to watch Ramadan special shows and series airing on TV.

Make it up to your parents as well, if like most of us, life has forced you to cut their calls short. Tell them how much you appreciate their care and efforts. Try to do something special for them. Help them in preparing for iftar and sehri.

So, this Ramadan, reach out to your loved ones. Pick up the phone and convey those due apologies, “I'm sorry it took this long, but I missed you.” Instead of going on about, they should have knocked me first, call them and say, “Let bygones be bygones and meet over iftar for the old times sake!”